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I Am Procrastinating

What I do when I'm not doing what I'm supposed to be doing.

2009-10-18

Do It: Chillax

The past seven days have been filled with every major life cycle point.

One Birth. Two Marriages. One Separation. Three Birthdays. One Death.

A blur of celebrations and remembrances - each bringing together family or friends I don't often see and who I already miss now that they've returned to "normal" life.

None of these things actually happened to me. Whenever I get in these situations, I tend to focus on mundane tasks - does everyone have directions? are glasses full? does the trash need to be taken out?

Ok, ok, it's a coping mechanism. I'm not into thinking about my feelings.

But now that the week has gone by and I'm processing the events, I'm experiencing a rush of thoughts I wish I'd shared in the moment.

So here I am, chillaxing, wishing I'd done it earlier. If we've broken bread this week and you get a cheesy email from me, don't be shocked.

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6 Comments:

Blogger MeeShell said...

I'm glad you survived the week. Welcome back to sanity...

October 19, 2009 2:10 PM  
OpenID mom911 said...

Wow, quite a week you've had. That a lot to take in and I totally hear ya on the delayed reactions. Glad you are able to take the time to process now.

October 19, 2009 7:14 PM  
Blogger rappin' rise said...

i told you before, you are a great friend to all of your friends :) Stop being so nice!

October 20, 2009 12:03 PM  
Blogger Chelly said...

Wow, that's an emotional week. Full of highs and lows. Sorry I was tough on you earlier. Chelly

October 20, 2009 1:46 PM  
Blogger Ron Smith said...

That's a lot to take in. I wish you peace and strength. Any nice bodies of water nearby? The ocean is always a nice place to decompress.

October 21, 2009 11:09 AM  
Anonymous Martha Flynn said...

Thanks everyone. I should def take Ron up on this ocean suggestion - it's just a block away and I haven't seen it for weeks! (Which says terrible things about the consistency of my morning jogging routine.)

October 21, 2009 6:49 PM  

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